Relationships are so last century. Creationships are way more fun.
We are never really taught how to be in creationship with ourselves or others. Mostly what we do is mimic what we’ve seen in others, seen on TV, or read about in books.
Occasionally, in the attempt to never be like our mother or father or whoever we decided was bad and wrong, we go to the extreme opposite of what we saw others being.
Neither of these is honoring of you or your partner.
Mostly we do relationship, which means “the distance between”; and we do it according to what we have bought as right and good, rather than from choice and communion.
What is possible with creationship that you have decided is not possible, that if you allowed the possibility would actualize a completely different reality?